Vergewaltigung: US-Komikerin schockt mit Fotos

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Diese Fotos zeigen das Martyrium von US-Komikerin Beth Stelling

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Eigentlich ist es Beth Stellings Job die Leute zum Lachen zu bringen, doch die aktuellen Enthüllungen der US-Komikerin sind nur schockierend und alles andere als unterhaltsam.

Fotos mit blauen Flecken auf Beinen und Armen sind die Überbleibsel eines regelrechten Martyriums,dass Beth über sich ergehen lassen musste.

 

Same girl in all of these photos (me). I've had an amazing year and you've seen the highlights here, so these photos are an uncommon thing to share but not an uncommon issue. You may be weirded out but do read on. I have a point. There are many reasons not to make an abusive relationship public, mostly fear. Scared of what people will think, scared it makes me look weak or unprofessional.  When I broke up with my ex this summer, it wasn't because I didn't love him, it was because of this. And I absolutely relapsed and contacted him with things I shouldn’t have, but there are no “best practices” with this. When friends or comics ask why we broke up it's not easy or comfortable to reply; it doesn't seem like the appropriate thing to say at a stand-up show, a party or a wedding. It's embarrassing. I feel stupid. After being verbally, physically abused and raped, I dated him for two more months. It's not simple. After I broke up with him he said, "You're very open and honest in your stand-up, and I just ask that you consider me when you talk about your ex because everyone knows who you're talking about." And I abided. I wrote vague jokes because we both live in L.A. and I didn't want to hurt him, start a war, press charges, be interrogated or harassed by him or his friends and family. I wanted to move on and forget because I didn’t understand. I don't want revenge or to hurt him now, but it's unhealthy to keep this inside because my stand-up is pulled directly from my life. It's how I make my living. My personal is my professional. That is how I've always been; I make dark, funny.  So now I'm allowing this to be part of my story. It's not my only story, so please don't let it be. If you live in L.A., you've already started to hear my jokes about this and I ask you to have the courage to listen and accept it because I’m trying. Already since talking about this onstage, many women have come to me after shows asking me to keep doing it. Men have shown their solidarity.  An ex-girlfriend of this ex-boyfriend came to me and shared that she experienced the same fate. Then there was another and another (men and women) who shared other injustices at his hand that..

Ein von Beth Stelling (@bethstelling) gepostetes Foto am 28. Dez 2015 um 9:30 Uhr

Am Montag veröffentlichte sie nun genau diese Fotos auf Instagram und zeigte so der Welt,was ihr Ex-Freund angeblich alles mit ihr gemacht hat.
 

„Ich hatte Angst davor, was die Leute über mich denken würden.Angst davor, dass es mich schwach oder unprofessionell wirken lassen könnte.“

„Es ist peinlich. Ich komme mir dumm vor. Nachdem er mich mit Worten und körperlich angegriffen hatte, mich vergewaltigt hatte, ging ich trotzdem noch zwei Monate lang mit ihm aus.“

So Beth auf Instagram.


Doch die Frau schafft schlussendlich den Absprung und trennte sich im Sommer von ihrem Peiniger.  Ein Befreiungsschlag und nun will Beth auch anderen Mut machen:„Es ist nicht nur meine Geschichte, bitte lasst euch so etwas nicht antun.“